Okay, I'm going to ask the same question a different way. Are you:
1) Trying to have a common desktop between both of the computers (I only know how to do this with domain controllers, and I don't know that I'd have a laptop as the domain controller), or
2) Trying to share the data that happens to be in the desktop folder on both computers?
** To answer #2,
a. Open Windows Explorer
b. Open C:
c. Open "Documents and Settings"
d. Open "Your Name" (whatever name you log in as under Windows)
e. Right click "Sharing and Security..."
f. Click "Share this folder"
You'll also have to open up your firewall on both sides. I don't know which firewall you are using, so I'll leave that up to you.
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