Spoffed IP Addys, How To see the Real One???

Hey
At the Moment I am Being Hacked Quiet regulaly at the same time everyday. The hacker seems to be using many methods to log in remotly and genrally take controll usually remotly starting the WINVNC4 Service, Telnet or using NetCat this I have taken care of. The problem i have is after logging the IP addresses being used against me even though they seem to be the same person are always tracked down to a different place. I am assuming he is Spoofing his IP Address and wonder what is a good way to reveal the true identity of the Hacker???

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